John SmethersWent to a party at 11 yrs old and got back at 45 You are not connected to John Smethers
The Basics
Friends
|
John Smethers's Popular Tags
| archetypes (1) |
| crime (1) |
| joint (1) |
| drugs (1) |
| alcohol (1) |
| jointster (1) |
| trickster (1) |
| john smethers (1) |
| addiction (1) |
| recovery (1) |
John is waiting for questions concerning drug and alcohol addiction. I am here to help.
Spotlight
Relapse Prevention
rating: 8.4
|
comments: 13
One of the most common reasons that addicts (alcoholics are addicts too) relapse is not following through with their treatment plan. Obtaining effective treatment requires patience and cooperation with . . . more
John's Activities
About Me
-
People say I'm:
-
Describe Yourself:I went to a party when I was eleven and didn't get back until I was forty five. I managed to put an end to more than thirty years of alcohol and drug addiction culminating with a stretch in the state prison system. Upon being released from the California Department of Corrections on Dec 3, 1989, my first life came to an end. During that first life, however, I did manage to raise a daughter. I have two grandkids, a boy and girl. Fortunately, my grandkids will never see me the way my daughter did. They'll never have to watch the police take me out of the house in handcuffs like my daughter did. They'll never have to control their behavior according to what drug I was taking like my daughter did. And they'll never have to endure being embarrassed in public like my daughter did. Fortunately I haven't taken a drink or put a needle in my arm since May 7, 1990 (my last relapse date), and for that I am most assuredly grateful. In 1990, when my second life began, I became a college student at 45 years old. I transferred my obsession with drugs and alcohol to education which eventually earned me a Ph.D. in 2004. In June of 2008 my book Scumbag Sewer Rats was published. For more information, please visit my website at
www.ScumbagSewerRats.com -
On Gather, I'm Looking For ...:Friends
Interests
-
Lately I've been listening to:
-
I'd love to visit:
-
Favorite Music, Artists, Genres:
-
Favorite Books, Writers, Genres:
-
Favorite Movies, Actors, Genres:
-
Favorite TV Shows, Actors:
-
Favorite Places:
-
Interests and Activities:
-
Wish List:
Affiliations
-
Political Affiliation:
-
Religious Affiliation:
-
Employers:
-
Colleges:Barstow College--AA degree, 1992, Chapman University--BA in psychology, 1994, National University--MHS in community psy, 1998, Pacifica Graduate Institute--PhD in depth psy, 2004Major:
-
High Schools:
-
Websites:
Ping Me
Displaying 10 of 42 Pings
|
View all »
-
Carol P., Nov 11, 2009, 10:55AM ESTYour story could inspire so many. I hope your book will reach the hands of those who need your direction. Glad to hear your life is having a happy ending.
-
Vincent Parker, Nov 10, 2009, 8:26PM ESTHi John, thank you for the friendship. You have an awesome profile and are an inspiration.
Vince -
Kris P., Nov 4, 2009, 12:52PM ESTJohn I would be honored to be your friend, you are a true success story!
Kris
-
Nurse Nancy S., Nov 2, 2009, 4:31PM ESTThanks for the friend request. I am sure hubby and I can learn a thing or two from you!!
-
Susan Budig, Oct 30, 2009, 9:05PM EDTGlad to make a connection. You sound like a great resource for information that others might want or need, but don't know where to turn.
-
Maurice K., Oct 26, 2009, 3:28PM EDTThank you for adding me to your list of friends.
Your profile is very revealing and very honest, and you are certainly a man of character to have come through all you've been through with success. -
Sharon P., Oct 25, 2009, 2:51PM EDTSounds like you are doing very well. I too am grateful to have met you. I am lucky in that I never got addicted to anything (so far), but I have watched friends, and a relative disintegrate under their influence. Only one is still alive, and so far, he does not want help.
He is my nephew, so its heartbreaking. -
Ed Williams, Oct 25, 2009, 1:20PM EDTJohn, I have much respect for you after reading your profile and am honored to be your new Gather friend!
E3 -
Violette D., Sep 1, 2009, 12:51PM EDTThanks for the friend invite. I'm an adult daughter of an alcoholic and kudos to you for all the changes in your life. I'm sure it has been difficult for your daughter, but rewarding to have her dad around now for her and her kids.
-
TICA M., Aug 14, 2009, 6:25PM EDTI live and work in Louisana. Looks like you have had an unusual life. What made you take an interest in me?
About Gather |
Engagement Marketing |
Make New Friends |
Gather Points |
Advertise on Gather |
Gather Press |
Privacy |
Terms of Service |
Community Guidelines
Books | Celebs | Entertainment | Family | Food | Health | Moms | Money | News | Politics | Spirituality | Sports | Travel | Writing
Books | Celebs | Entertainment | Family | Food | Health | Moms | Money | News | Politics | Spirituality | Sports | Travel | Writing
Version 16811, "Oz"; Copyright © 2009 Gather Inc. All rights reserved.